Femdom in India: Don't lose hope
The structure of the patriarchal system in India makes it much easier to find a submissive woman for a relationship than a dominant one. However, rest assured that there are many dominant women who are ready to break free from the patriarchal system and are seeking beta men. Submitting yourself to such women should be regarded as an honor. The majority of such women are found in metropolitan tier-one cities like Bangalore, Mumbai, Delhi, Chennai, Kolkata, Ahmedabad, and Surat. However, this doesn't mean that other parts of India lack women with dominant personalities. It's just that many such women migrate to 'big cities' because these cities tend to be more accepting of their lifestyle.
If you're serious about living your preferred lifestyle, I highly recommend moving to a nearby big city. This will increase your chances of meeting someone compatible. However, finding a woman who is genuinely into domination requires effort, as you'll need to filter through a large number of individuals who may not align with your preferences.
Social media and dating platforms are excellent tools for this. Additionally, communities on platforms like Facebook, Discord, FetLife, and others provide opportunities to connect with like-minded people and expand your network. I have also created Facebook group for Indian Doms and subs to connect with each other. You can join this group and support the Indian BDSM community.
Create Profiles on Dating Sites
The best and the easiest way to find a keyholder for your chastity cage or sadist goth girl who is ready to whip you with the belt is through online dating sites. Tinder, Bumble, Grinder, TrulyMadly, Woo, OkCupid, Aisle, QuackQuack, Badoo, Happn, and Hinge are just few examples of dating sites you can use to find Doms. Just make sure to mention your 'turn ons' and 'turn offs' to avoid attracting wrong matches.
This strategy works best if you are in or near tier 1 city as most of these apps find you match based on your location (GPS).
Join BDSM Clubs in India
There are multiple online communities which allow like minded individuals to connect with eachother. Online BDSM communities thrive in the wake of the revolutionary JIO effect which has allowed people from tier two and tier three cities to have fast speed internet connection.
You can find Doms through various platforms such as Collarspace, FetLife, KinkyCollective.com, and others.
Create amateur/commercial Sex Dungeon
India's conservative culture means there are limited spaces for members of the BDSM community to meet or participate in group activities. However, millions of Indians are interested in exploring such experiences as these identities stem from inherent desires. If you own land in a suburban or semi-rural area with adequate transportation from nearby metropolitan city, you can create a BDSM-friendly space or dungeon. It doesn't need to be very fancy. Just read few articles about interiors of BDSM dungeons and implement it as per your budget.
You can advertise your dungeon on social media such as Facebook/Twitter (now called X) or invest some money on AdSense to promote your dungeon. India's large population means you'll attract lots of visitors daily. You can also generate significant income by charging entry fees for visitors and participants in group events.
But keep in mind that establishing working BDSM dungeon comes under legal gray area. There are no specific laws in India that prohibits BDSM activities but there few IPC sections used by police against you as a BDSM dungeon owner. These are IPC act 294 (obscene acts in public places), Information Technology (IT) act section 67A (Publishing obscene materials), IPC section 292 (Prohibits distribution or sales of absence materials), Immoral traffic prevention act commonly called Brothels act 1956 prohibits commercial sexual activities.
You see, none of these sections are specifically against BDSM or sex dungeons but some conservative/orthodox people may pressurize police to charge you for violation of one or more of these IPC sections. To avoid this, make sure that your dungeon is discrete and only accessible/recognised by people of BDSM community.
The dungeon house from outside should be as "normal" looking as possible to avoid attracting suspicion. The Indian police, being highly corrupt and non-functional, will never have any clue about it.
Pay for the Service
India has one of the largest numbers of prostitutes even outnumbering some western countries thanks to the large number of population and inefficient and highly corrupt law enforcement agency aka Indian police. As per the law, prostitution is legal and recently supreme court has also struck down Section 377 of IPC making pay-for-sex (vaginal as well as anal) completely legal. Although brothels (or organized prostitution) are still illegal, but in practice, they are only raided when the police do not receive protection money or bribes from the brothel, or if there is political or high-command pressure on law enforcement. You can visit brothel or prostitute and describe your kinks to the her. Majority of prostitutes will not object and will be ready to have a private night with you for a price. I would suggest you to negotiate the price before hand and have your femdom tools ready. Be verbal and communicate in language that she understands as majority of desi prostitutes are illiterate. Don't expect your first femdom to be perfect as desi prostitutes might be inexperienced. Repeatedly calling or visiting the same prostitute enhances the experience, as each session helps her refine her skills. Consider changing the prostitute only after the third or fourth visit if you feel she cannot effectively take on the role of a Dom.
Online Femdom Sessions
There are many women who have built their career as an online Dom Mommy. They can conduct online sessions and provide live one-two-one instructions through video calls. They provide personalized tasks and deadline to complete those task. They may ask you to show record for assigned tasks. They are open for all kind of kinks, including but not limited to, small penis humiliation, chastity play, orgasm denial, orgasm control, bimbofication, impact play, CBT and mutual masturbation. They usually charge per session, with prices varying based on the Dom and her country of origin. But be sure to verify that you are connecting real Dom not some scammer who just disappear after payment is done. To find such Dom you can check Discord, Facebook, OF, Reddit or Telegram.
Convince Your Partner
If you're married or in relationship, then the best way to enjoy femdom is by persuading your partner to your kinks. Most people underestimate their partners when it comes to kinks and keep them to themselves. However, they often don't realize that, most of the time, their partners are willing to fulfill those desires. If your girlfriend/wife isn't overly religious or extremely conservative then there isn't any reason to keep your desires to yourself. Slowly slowly introduce your desires to her. "
Show her the kind of porn you’d like to replicate and share your thoughts while watching them. Introduce her to your kinks and encourage her to get involved. And do not give up. It might take time but being an Indian woman, she will absolutely do anything to please you. She might hesitate while performing CBT on you but once she realises that you are happy being tortured she will absolutely love it.
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